It's all on us?
Just another cynical observation:
Today while picking up my wife from the school she teaches at, I watched four moms pick up their children. Not one of the six total kids involved buckled up before the car left the lot. In fact, one kid was facing out the back window, waving to another friend. But we're expected to keep them following no cell phone and no hat policies when they get to high school. Yep.